how to be magnetic
start magnetizing the love you truly desire
What you attract is a mirror of your own inner relationship
In 2022 I experienced the most fruitful period of darkness in my living memory.
Yet another relationship disintegrated. Heart shattered as I tried to make sense of the pain that ushered me into this threshold. I felt a deep sense of disconnection and confusion. A familiar wave of unworthiness hit me with full force as I desperately tried to navigate my grief and sadness.
Only this time it was different…..
This grief had a different flavor to it, a sense of purpose and wisdom that landed in my heart with an aura of sacredness. I can only describe it as a sense of surrender into an abyss that was deeply nourishing. I thought this place inside me needed a voice, What beautiful wisdom does she hold for me? What gifts of growth are waiting for me at the other side of this darkness? I needed to find out so I sought guidance.
Through the ancient wisdom teachings of Tantra I discovered the wisdom that every part of me is divine, even my shadows. That divinity is not a state of perfection but a state of wholeness, for in my darkest spaces is where I found my brightest light. I was being called to integrate the parts of me that kept me in a karmic loop of sexual shame and repression, resulting from religious and sexual trauma in my youth and spilling out in all forms of dysfunction in my adult relationships.
These profound teachings led me to a deep realization that:
No one can unconditionally love you. You are the only one who can do this.
We aren’t biologically designed to have one person meet all of our needs over a lifetime.
Our conditioning sets us up to look to our partner to fill our needs and dreams. This
subtly disempowers us from our own ability to take radical self-responsibility.
subtly disempowers us from our own ability to take radical self-responsibility.
Relationships are an invitation into our wholeness.
There is no right or spiritual way to do relationship.
As I fully embodied these truths and began to trust in the power of deep unconditional self-love, low and behold and without any warning…
I magnetized my King!
A true conscious partnership where we recognize that we are not there to save or fix each other, and instead use our relationship as an opportunity to heal our intimacy wounds moving us through pleasure and purification cycles.
If this is the kind of partnership that you are ready to call into your life, then I invite you to join my 10 week one-to-one program How to be Magnetic where we shall explore:
How to become deeply comfortable with intimacy.
Holding a clear vision for your long term partnership.
Be your own secure attachment figure.
Creating a magnetizing inner ecology to manifest the love you truly desire.
If you feel ready to step into the love that is your birthright , then I invite you to fill in your details below and book your free discovery call.
With love and presence,
Nats Alchemy
Embodied Intimacy
Coaching
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